Sometimes their criticism of you is necessary. Sometimes their lack of support breathes in you self-confidence. Sometimes the people that leave leave for your purpose. Sometimes your tears make way for your joy. And still there are other times when you know there has to be something better but you still hold on to what you know. In those moments learn from the journey, because even the buzzing has value.
Not all hurt is meant to break you. Some pain is meant to grow you. Your adversary may also actually help you more in your journey to your purpose than your friends. The reason being is that your enemy, you get prepared for; your friends, you let them stay and take your dream from you. However, stand strong in the belief that even the laughter behind your back, the walks alone, and all the hurt adds what you need to be ready for where you are destined to go.
So watch your frustration around who talks about you. Watch your tears when they laugh at you. More importantly, grow yourself when they don’t support you and remember even the buzzing has value.
Dr. Sheika Square is an author, business strategist, life coach, prolific speaker and executive consultant with more than 13 years’ experience. Affectionately known for her straight-up, no-fluff coaching approach, Dr. Square gives ambitious entrepreneurs the insight and guidance they need to shift from an aspiring entrepreneur or side hustler to a confident and profitable CEO.